tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6805760288905631756.post5312569405913613720..comments2024-03-19T16:55:43.349-04:00Comments on The Every Things Mrs Mumaw : Fort Wayne Lifestyle, Travel & Mommy Blogger: infertility vs marriagetara @ the every thingshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07477904209292711593noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6805760288905631756.post-91733853775787670972011-08-28T09:24:54.772-04:002011-08-28T09:24:54.772-04:00found my way over from Samantha's blog. I su...found my way over from Samantha's blog. I suffered from infertility before having my 7-month-old daughter, and you'd be a rarity if it didn't cause strain on your marriage. y'all will be fine because you're recognizing and doing something about it! good luck.Gingerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11904073032627748614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6805760288905631756.post-77817773280530568302011-08-24T12:52:40.248-04:002011-08-24T12:52:40.248-04:00I'm so sorry you are going through this and th...I'm so sorry you are going through this and the strain it has put on your marriage. Although I certainly don't TRULY know how you feel, as far as infertility goes, Aaron and I have had multiple miscarriages in the past including one in the 2nd tri so I do understand your fears of losing another baby.<br />If I were you, though, once August passes, I'd just throw caution out the window. Don't take birth control, don't actively try OR prevent. You are such a wonderful mother and I'd hate to see you give up on your dreams of a sibling for your little bug. <br />You're strong. We all admire you and do NOT look down on you for this post! Hang in there.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10877597282212673142noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6805760288905631756.post-33193819648539114512011-08-23T22:15:36.697-04:002011-08-23T22:15:36.697-04:00Thank you for being honest. I hope you felt a wei...Thank you for being honest. I hope you felt a weight lifted off of you as you got this off your chest.<br /><br />That being said, don't beat yourself up! No one is perfect, no marriage is perfect, no pregnancy, birth or child is perfect. We all just do the best we can with the circumstances we are given.<br /><br />I'll pray for your marriage and for you healing...wherever it may lead you.E @ Life on a Quilthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12117116008309217419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6805760288905631756.post-18631838032742913112011-08-23T21:37:11.440-04:002011-08-23T21:37:11.440-04:00sorry that you are going throug this! Lots of hug...sorry that you are going throug this! Lots of hugs and prayers being sent your way.Danahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04762555921549623200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6805760288905631756.post-39823596805281032752011-08-23T04:14:17.613-04:002011-08-23T04:14:17.613-04:00Sending you lots of hugs Tara. Very brave of you t...Sending you lots of hugs Tara. Very brave of you to write this post and share with us all. IF does suck and it can be such a strain on your relationship. I know I had similar fights with my husband about me crying over other people's pregnancy annoucements. You are not alone. xxSummastarlethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10873371748864027299noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6805760288905631756.post-7117292081591293992011-08-22T16:49:24.198-04:002011-08-22T16:49:24.198-04:00Thanks for opening up about this! I feel bad you a...Thanks for opening up about this! I feel bad you are both going through this, its not fair at all but you are blessed with a beautiful daughter which is more than a lot of people can say! I think it just effects women more because we are the ones who carry the baby and have all the crazy changes! I will pray for you guys, keep your head up!Alliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09371173244494164738noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6805760288905631756.post-77177115906479587412011-08-22T15:24:21.085-04:002011-08-22T15:24:21.085-04:00IF sucks. Thank you for being so real and honest. ...IF sucks. Thank you for being so real and honest. The scheduled sex, the differences in men and women, the expectations and the sadness can really tug at a marriage. I know, and it sucks. I hope you guys can talk it out and find your happy place again!Littlest True Bluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12605815254571176638noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6805760288905631756.post-12963524715505672772011-08-22T13:22:49.612-04:002011-08-22T13:22:49.612-04:00You are so right in what you said about IF being s...You are so right in what you said about IF being so much more than not being able to have a baby. It is so hard to go through. Hugs to you and thanks for sharing.Nicolasa @ {My}Perspectivehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05747562450503094559noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6805760288905631756.post-23693951832126633142011-08-22T12:01:39.980-04:002011-08-22T12:01:39.980-04:00Such a great and real post on IF, it is true it ne...Such a great and real post on IF, it is true it never goes away. Plus it is difficult opening up about it. Stay strong mama!Brittanyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03642621364063949245noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6805760288905631756.post-63089447338716556202011-08-22T11:43:17.296-04:002011-08-22T11:43:17.296-04:00I admire you for talking about this and opening up...I admire you for talking about this and opening up. It's so, so difficult.<br /><br />(((HUGS)))Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08507118457609696378noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6805760288905631756.post-69571873362020126082011-08-22T11:38:35.078-04:002011-08-22T11:38:35.078-04:00Props to you for being able to post this. I know ...Props to you for being able to post this. I know how awful IF can be and the strain it causes on the relationship even though every journey with it is differnt. You have a lot of wisdom and your love for Kennedy is amazing. I hope that things get better for you and your husband soon!!!!Samanthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09212527264716019421noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6805760288905631756.post-79720693492409007642011-08-22T11:20:42.484-04:002011-08-22T11:20:42.484-04:00Awww Tara I wish I could give u a hug right now. I...Awww Tara I wish I could give u a hug right now. I can't even imagine what your going through and how you must feel. We are all guilty of putting on the persona of a perfect life when in all reality everyone's lives and relationships have some problems. I admire your honesty & your strength!Etosia (e-tasha)https://www.blogger.com/profile/10505348767075727010noreply@blogger.com